Monday, February 7, 2011

boobs and babies...

no...this is not me..ha ha ha
But it is Miranda Kerr, wife of Orlando Bloom and Victoria's Secret model...AND organic lifestyle advocate!

Poor Miranda, received ridiculous comments from people about this photo...being IMMODEST.

I think these people forgot that...boobs were designed for breastfeeding. Being able to breastfeed a baby is such an amazing gift...just like a woman's body being able to be the precious garden where the baby grows.

I think this picture is beautiful...showing a precious baby, loving mama...and a VERY natural thing...breastfeeding.

How funny that more "boob-age" and behinds are shown in a music video or even on a magazine page and no one says anything!

Now for me, as a breastfeedin' mama...
(INSERT SIDE NOTE: this from the modest girl that didn't even want to wear a V-neck t-shirt, because I thought it was too revealing in high school! ha ha)
...I may not wanna just pop a boob out in public and feed away, for everyone to see!
BUT that's easy...just bring a nursing cover...a light blankie..anything, you can hide your hoo-hah's...feed your baby and your good to go!


you can be stylish...nurse your baby... and hide your boobs! ha ha
I like these ones from ITZY RITZY (I got a leopard print one, but I don't see them on the website anymore! hoe could you get rid of leopard print! ha ha ha)

I'm proud of Miranda Kerr! She is a beautiful, new mama, no make-up, just nursing her baby, which is beautiful, natural, and sooo very good for baby! You Go Miranda! Maybe one day soon, people will not be so weireded out by seeing a mom nursing, but think it's ok to see half naked girls, looking way too "provocative" on tv and newstands.

here's my little cherub, I nursed her...her tummy full....and off to dream land!

huge love bigger than my new, breastfeeding bra size! ha ha ha
Your friend, kandee

PS...you can check out my "new mama" make-up video on my www.kandeej.com bloggy!

Sunday, February 6, 2011

2 weeks old on SUperbowl Sunday!

2 weeks old today!
And I still haven't left the house! ha ha ha
But we did have a pretty good night of sleep...she only woke up a couple times...
Now the day time is different...ha ha ha...she doesn't seem to sleep for too long during the day!
She must have a lot of growing to do...sleep for a little, nurse....wake up...sleep for a little...nurse again...
And I treasure each moment I get to hold her snuzzly in my arms...because I know soon she'll be like Blaker and Alani...big and running around! ha ha ha
As long as I have enough time to take a shower I'm in heaven! ha ha ha
I wanted to share this sunset we saw yesterday! 
Somehow my iphone, didn't capture how incredible it was....
the sky was the most delicious shade of hot pink and tangerine...
I just said, "Thank you God, for giving me this gift of beautiful colors to brighten up my day"...

sometimes it's the smallest things that get overlooked...that are the little treasure in our day...
If I hadn't looked outside I would've missed this gift...

(2 weeks since I did my "day before labor" video..ha ha ha ha...that seems so far away now!)

hot pink skies....your friend, Kandee

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Saturday, February 5, 2011

YAY! Umbilical Cord Fell Off!!!

 I love this lil' happy face! Alani did my hair in two clips..which kinda made me look like I had Shrek ears...but lil' Cupcake (and yes we are getting closer to finding a name that suits here perfectly!)....thought my hair was funny! ha ha ha
And I was so excited to see that somewhere between watching an infomercial for the "Ab-doer"...and watching CNN (which I can't stand watching the news...it just makes my blood pressure go up and makes me sad)...and us waking up....UMBILICAL CORD had decided to fall off!
HOORAY!
For some reason I think the end of it was poking in her little tummy, and not feeling so good...
So yay! Umbilical is gone....they say it takes anywhere from 10-21 days for the umbilical cord to fall off...so we're at day 13 and it's fallen off! Now I feel like I'm not hurting her tummy by holding her lil' belly against me! I don't want anything to hurt her...

Now I'm off to take a ridiculously fast shower before she wakes up!

happy saturday...your friend who's watched way too many infomercials during the night feedings...Kandee

Friday, February 4, 2011

My view on friday...


my view......my precious lil one sleeping in my arms...the most peaceful lil' vision is a lil' one sleeping!
I'm gonna lose so much weight just walking her around! ha ha ha
And yes I am a baby-wearer....can't wait to show you all my baby carrier...it's my fav, all my babies have loved it!

I can't believe it's friday....this week has felt like a blur of hoping for a shower, nursing, watching every cooking show on tv, changing into different pairs of pajamas...hugging and loving my littles...and holding little cupcake...
OUTFIT OF THE DAY: Alani dressed herself...and I LOVE IT! I love all her stripes...she is defintely her mama's girl...hee hee...
I love how my little lovebugs are cuddling in this picture!!!
Alani even styled her own hair today! And I love it...! Looks much better than mama's hair today...I won't even frighten you with what my hair looks like today! ha ha ha

yay....for the weekend....I don't know why but days just feel different on the weekend!

How I miss being little sometimes, watching Saturday morning cartoon, my dad bringing home a big pink box of sprinkled donuts...and then spending the day riding bikes or roller skating! so fun!

roller skates and donuts...your friend,  kandee

Thursday, February 3, 2011

I dream of cheesecake...

In a fresh new gown and swaddling blanket...mesmerized by the ceiling fan! (see below for our pre-fresh-new-gown photo! ha ha ha)

The last time I left my house...
baby was still inside my tummy...
it's been 11 days! ha ha ha
The night before I had lil baby...is the last time I went anywhere! ha ha
Alani and Blaker requested waffles for breakfast...(blakey seems to have some neat "marker" tattoos on his arm! ha ha..why color on paper when you can draw on your arms!)
I had my usual bowl of Vanilla Island cereal....yumbo!
and a little smile from a little lady with nothin' but a diaper on!
(oh umbilical cord, won't you please decide to fall off!...ha ha)
She's getting so big!

 And the rest of the day has been me trying to type this blog and my kandeej.com blog...do some laundry, nurse baby...watch more cooking shows while I nurse...nurse baby some more...
eat a snack....
change a diaper while Blakey yells for me to wipe him because he's done poopin'...
wash hands, for the I forget, how many times today...ha ha ha
carry baby around til she falls asleep...
she wakes up....
nurse baby some more...
*really wish I could eat Paula Dean's vanilla custard pie through the tv
*really wish I could eat the Cake Boss's baked Ziti through the tv
*and still wishing that a cheesecake from Claim Jumper would somehow show up on my porch! ha ha

love and cheesecake....your friend Kandee

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

THE SCOOP ON POOP (and cloth diapers)

oh, look at my lil' pumkin-cupcake in her soft lil' cloth diaper!
(the umbilical cord never seems to fall off soon enough...ha ha ha...it just looks so...like a branch that hurts...I know it has no feeling, but I bet you can feel if that "branch-like" thing poking in your tummy!)

WHAT DOES BABY POOP SMELL LIKE TO ME:
buttered popcorn (BUT THAT'S only if you are breastfeeding. Breastfed babies have mustardy colored poop, that strangely has a "sweet" smell...well, like buttered popcorn!ha ha) babies who drink formula...their poop plain stinks! ha ha ha

WHY I CHOSE CLOTH DIAPERS:
I'd like to say I did it to be green, and eco-friendly...which is a great bonus..(not filling up our landfills with millions of diapers that won't decompose! yuck!)
BUT really I just did it because it's better for baby...
(I used Huggies on all my other babies...and thought, it's time for a change....I'm gonna be a cloth-diaperin' mama!)

It takes the same amount of time to change a disposable as it does a cloth diaper.
There is no rinsing or anything...you just throw the diapers in the wash~ breastfed poop is virtually bacteria free and pretty clean, it's pretty much like liquid mustard, not like big people poops! ha ha) hence their is no "smelly odor", that's why it's safe to throw in the washer! (you can always do a quick rinse cycle with bleach and hot water after you've done a load of diapers to kill anything in there!)...I use the ROCKIN' GREEN DIAPER WASH
in CLASSIC ROCK SCENT...diapers smell super clean, and like poop or pee was never even near em!
WHY I AM IN LOVE WITH CLOTH DIAPERING NOW!!
  • VIRTUALLY NO RASHES
  • SO MUCH SOFTER THAN DISPOSABLES
  • No Crying with diaper changes
  • No marks from the disposable diaper "elastic"
  • All natural fabric against baby (you can buy the unbleached and organic cloth diapers too)
  • WAY CHEAPER THAN DISPOSABLES
and no risk of chemical burns from the DRY-MAX filling in disposables
(WARNING: PLEASE DON'T USE PAMPERS with DRY MAX...the NEW "DRY MAX" technology is giving babies chemical burns when it mixes with urine...my midwife already has 2 clients that have baby's with chemical burns from Pampers!)

WHY I CHOSE CLOTH WIPES:
I used disposable wipes and diapers for 2 days after cupcake was born, because of the tar like meconium poop (the waste from everything they've ingested in the womb)...but she screamed at every diaper change, even with the wipe warmer.
CLOTH WIPES are what pediatricians recommend to be gentle enough to help get rid of rashes. Even the most "natural" and "senstive" disposable wipes...are really harsh on baby's brand new, delicate skin.
No MORE crying at diaper changes
Not one rash
And it's great for the environment, that I'm not plowing through plastic boxes of wipes! ha ha ha

My Diaper Changing ESSENTIALS:

BUM BUM BALM - all natural, animal cruelty free, no zinc oxides, naturally antibacterial, and prevents rashes LIKE nothing else I've ever used!

SNAPPI (no more pins...these things are AWESOME! Just as fast as securing a disposable diapers!)
WHY I LOVE THESE:- this is the softest, no crinkley sounding diaper cover...and it has polar fleece around the the tummy and legs...so soft...it doens't leave a mark on the legs or tummy at all. 
Has no awful elastic around the waist or legs to leave red marks!
(I've returned a few different brands before I  even had baby...awful snaps would dig into baby's back, or horrible elastic!) These are the softest!

I haven't had one diaper leak! I've had WAY LESS diaper leaks with the cloth diapers..with disposables...I had poop and pee leaks all the time!

(Green Mountain Diapers is AWESOME, she helped me so much on the phone, and my order came in just a few days!)
I ordered the NEWBORN...but they shrink so much...she's only 10 days old, weighs about 8.5 lbs and they are WAYYYYYY too small!
I should've just ordered the SMALL YELLOW....they should be arriving any day now! ha ha
You have to wash them a several times before using is super hot water, then they get nice and soft.

PRINCE LIONHEART WIPES WARMER & BAMBOO CLOTH Warmies

There is NO COMPARISON to how much better these are than disposable baby wipes! No rashes, no harsh chemicals that even the most "sensitive" & "natural" disposable wipes have! No more crying at diaper changes...and you just toss em in with your load of dirty diapers!
I bought 4 packages of the Bamboo Warmies (I love that they are called "WARMIES")..and that is just enough between diaper loads every few days!
I got mine at Babies R Us.

AND...I always lay out one of these ESPECIALLY FOR BABIES WATER-PROOF PADS...
or more like POOP AND PEE PROOF PADS down...you can wash them...and I got mine at Babies R Us.

DIAPERS & DIAPERS WEBSITES THAT WERE REALLY DISAPPOINTING:
The SPOSOEASY DIAPER...was SPO-SO-AWFUL...
it had a really hard cord of elastic in the back that would definitely leave a bad red mark on baby's back..and was not soft at all, that would be very uncomfy for baby. So I tried to return them BEFORE I even had little cupcake...it's even in one of my videos of me returning them BEFORE I went into labor!
www.nickydiapers.com - I WILL NOT BUY ANYTHING FROM THEM AGAIN...
they say you have 15 days to return unwashed diapers...I returned them way before I had baby, didn't even take the sticker off them...and they sent some back saying they wouldn't return them because they had "stains" on them. I never even touched them other than putting them in a box to ship them back and spend even more money to return them. I was really disappointed in how they handled things. I don't want anyone else to get treated the same way, and stuck with diapers you don't like!

Oh, I think I hear baby waking up....gotta run in my fuzzy socks!

hope you liked this SCOOP on POOP....ha ha
your friend, who's still in her pj's at 5pm...(oh being a mama!).....Kandee

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Baby & What a Home Birth Is Like

Cupcake in the morning...(day 9)...
I am amazed every moment that I look at her..and think she was perfectly formed like this, in my tummy just a week and half ago! And now I get to hold her and look and her angelic little face!

I wanted to share with you all what a Home Birth is like...
which is funny because I used to think that I'd never have a home birth...that is was somehow gross or messy... ha ha ha...and we're just all conditioned (well at least in the US)...that a hospital is where you go to have a baby!

How funny...to see how wrong I was about Home Births! And now after 4 labor & deliveries of all my precious babies...that my HOME BIRTH experience was the most incredible birth ever!

From Home Birth Skeptic...to Home Birth Advocate! ha ha ha
My midwife team with my mama, Shannon!
(I love these ladies!) 
Sheri Uhrig (doula and birthing coach), Tiffany Hoffman (midwife assistant and massage therapist), Sherry Asp (my amazing midwife!)...and my mom, Shannon-who's been my labor coach for the last 3 babies!
if you want to find out more about MIDWIFERY (I think that's such a funny sounding word..."mid-wiff-ery)...you can go to my midwife's, Sherry's (the one next to my mom) website:
www.renomidwife.com
AND her doula assistant and Hypno-Birthing Instructor (you're not hypnotised, just an incredible way to relax during labor and delivery):
www.peacefularrival.com

I love these girls...I wish they could be there for each of you that are going to be having a baby!

So if you want to know what's a home birth is like...let me tell ya!


PS... To all my precious kandee family that are in medical school or are doctors...just want you to know that, I know there are fabulous, caring doctors...just my personal experience, not so much with  the doctors, but the hospital's procedures and protocol have been "not so great" for me! ha ha ha
I think it's a wonderful gift  that doctors can help save lives, and if something were to go wrong I would be so thankful for a great doctor!

This home birth experience, is just something I wanted to share...with you all...no matter how your baby gets here....the baby is the miracle!
huge hugs and love....your friend, kandee

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